Wow seems this year went fast.

Well it's November. Another year nearly finished. Was I asleep for most of it? Just seem's to have gone by really fast. I been divorced now for 7 months. My decree absolute came through last week, finally. So what does a divorced mother do.. Decorates!
LOL
That is what I have spent my months doing. I now have a living room to relax in, my children have a playroom.. albeit a bit messy, but it's tangabile. They have their rooms sorted, I still have to "fix" little missy's room though.. she had a fight with the waldrobe and threw everything on the floor! She still has an obsession with pink.. which is cute.. but annoying to find decorative stuff in. Me however, am still fighting to get my own bedroom sorted.. funds kinda run out half way through! But I am still smiling through it all.

Kids dad has been somewhat of an annoyance. He keeps making half hearted attempts at being the kids dad. *Shrugs* Guess he will get the hang of it..one day. I am actually feeling good about the changes in my life. It has taken me longer than I thought it would, though, to "get back" on my feet.

I am not talking about the emotional side of things. I was told that you are supposed to grieve after a divorce, thing is, I don't know what I am suppose to grieve for! I feel relief. The back on my feet bit comes from finacial side of things. Even though he didn't put his hand in his pocket, I seemed to have survived better with him here. It took a while, but I am finally ironing out the creases though!

Day to day, well I returned to my studies. I am exhausted! Definatly never enough hours in the day for anything good! With the kids at school though it is nice to have 5 minutes too sit down for myself.

Anyway I think that will have to be a mini update for now. I'm falling asleep as I type.. never a good sign! I have to "escort" my son's school tommorow.. I promised to go with his class too a trip they have planned.. I still have the lunches to pack!

I bid you all adieu for now.. till next time <3